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Raley, Terry

Raley, Terry

March 30, 1964 — November 19, 2020

Terry Raley, 56, passed away peacefully on November 19, 2020, at home with family surrounding him.

Terry was born March 30, 1964 in Bad Cannstatt (Berlin), Germany. He met his loving wife Lisa in 1991 and they were united in marriage on August 31, 1995. Lisa and Terry were best friends, often seen teasing each other but always with that little sparkle in their eyes. Their love was rare and special, guiding them through the most difficult moments over the past few months.

Terry’s career with Valspar spanned 21 years.

Terry, lovingly known as “Big Block”, never knew a stranger. He treated everyone he met with the same respect that he would a life-long friend. You would never hear a negative word come out of his mouth about anyone. He was loyal, loving, and the best friend anyone could ask for. He was a gentle giant and was loved by many.

Terry's granddaughter Emmie-Lou was his world. From the day she started school, he was the last person she saw before entering the building and the first person she saw when she got out. Their faces would light up at the sight of each other. When Terry became too ill to continue their special routine, he would sit inside watching out the window from his chair for her school bus to pull up each day, not willing to miss out on a moment or let her down in any way.

Terry never thought he could love a little person as much as he loved his Emmie-Lou…until his little side-kick Tucker came around. Tucker renewed Terry's smile and his spirit. He would just smile and laugh when Tucker would run around the house yelling for his “Pop-Pop”. Terry had such a special place in his heart for his little man Tucker.

Terry fought Cancer with the unbelievable strength that we all knew him for. Our “Big Block” is no longer in pain and has begun his new journey in Heaven. Letting him go was more difficult than words can express but the thought of his suffering coming to an end brings us solace. We smile through our tears knowing that he is joining his son Vince who he has missed dearly for so many years. As a family of strong Faith, we believe that although we needed Terry here with us, God must have needed him more.

Terry is preceded in death by his mother, Erika Raley; his father, Howard Raley; his son, Vincent Raley, brother-in-Law, Tony McLaughlin and his father-in-Law, Earl McLaughlin.

Terry is survived by his loving wife, Lisa Jean Raley; son Michael Raley; son Tyler Raley and daughter Sammantha Raley. He is also survived by his sister, Iris Raley; brother, Stephen Raley; mother-in-law, Jeannie McLaughlin; brother-in-law, Rocky McLaughlin and wife Christa; brother-in-law, Vince McLaughlin and wife Jessica; nieces and nephews, Darrion, Gracie, Josh, Maycie, Drew, Vincent, Josie, Levi, Cody, Darien, David Jr. and Jamie. He also leaves two grandchildren he adored: Emmie Lou Raley and Tucker Raley.

Services and visitation will be open to all friends and family. Visitation will begin at 1:00 pm, followed by a service celebrating Terry's life at 3:00 pm, on Saturday, November 28, at Lawson Assembly of God, 527 West Sixth Street, Lawson, MO 64062.

“Family Chain”
We little knew that morning,
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.

Service Information

Services and visitation will be open to all friends and family. Visitation will begin at 1:00 pm, followed by a service celebrating Terry’s life at 3:00 pm, on Saturday, November 28, at Lawson Assembly of God, 527 West Sixth Street, Lawson, MO 64062.

Raley, Terry's Guestbook

Lots of fond memories with Terry, Steve and Iris from school days. Lost track after that, but was happy to hear he lived an amazing life with family and friends. Rest in peace.

Susie Roggenkamp (Brady)

We are so very sorry for the loss of Terry. Our hearts go out to Lisa, Michael, Tyler, Samantha, and his adorable grandchildren. Please know that God has you all wrapped in his loving arms in this time of sorrow. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers 🙏 ❤

Angela Lusby

Words can’t even describe the impact this man had on so many lives, including mine. He was someone you could look up too and someone you could aspire to be. He was nothing but a jokester, a wonderful friend, and a giant teddy bear. I will miss him so incredibly much and will always cherish the memories we had in the past and the ones we shared over the last few months. I love you brother! My prayers go out to Lisa, Sam, Tyler, Emmie, and the rest of the family. Always remember he loves you all so much

Derek Callahan

Terry was a great man very nice,respectful,fun sweet he was more than a friend he was family he will be sadly missed

John and Morgan Raw

Terry and I were school buddies back in Middle School. Though it was many years later that we once again connected our bond and friendship never left. Terry was a gentle giant and a good friend. I’m blessed to have gotten to spend some valuable time with Terry before he passed. Love you Terry and will see you again one day!

Greg Taylor

Rest in peace Terry.

Ed Wood

I’ve only been around your family once. But, it was a time I’ll never forget. Terry almost immediately started giving me a hard time. I, face it right back. We had laughs and fun in Christa’s kitchen that day. It was an honor to know him. I am praying for comfort and mercy on you all. I will see him, and laugh with him again, in heaven. Love you guys!

Julie O’Malley

Love ya man you will be missed you were like family be up there with Vince and take care of them in heaven love ya big block

Alex aka Mississippi

Many years I worked with this guy, between work, our horse play and him making his noises he learned at the zoo (peacocks) could always hear him across the plant. Their was always CHIP SHOTS for after work drinks, and the drag race home! He was a good freind, he will be missed.

Mark Mcclasky

We are so sorry to hear this news. We pray that Terry is at peace and that all his family are strengthened by each other and Terry’s love for them. God bless you all x

Will and Shannon Pemberton

I only had met Terry a handful of times,but enough to realize, if you measure how rich a man is by the number of caring friends, and family he has,he's the wealthiest man I know. It was a pleasure knowing you sir. Rest in Peace.

Thomas E. Holbrook

We have never met a man like our ‘Big Block’ as he was so lovingly called. Terry was the kindest, sweetest & some what on the ornery side. I think we converted him from Dolphin’s fan to our Chief’s. We watched a few games to cheer them on. Just kinda, he loved his Dolphins, we forgave him for that. The day we became neighbors was a most joyous event. When Terry would mosey on over, I literally jumped for joy, long story...All we can say, we have a huge hole in our hearts for ole Big Block. Until we meet again, fly high with the angels. Love always Uncle Cliff & Aunt Lisa

Uncle Cliff & Aunt Lisa Morrison

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